Two years later they were married. They soon moved to Boston, where John made his name as a lawyer. They began a family and had three sons and two daughters.
The American Revolution
Shortly after they married, the American Revolution began to take shape. Both Abigail and John wanted America to be free from British rule.
In 1774, John was sent to Philadelphia to serve in the first congress. Abigail stayed at home to raise the children.
Abigail shared control of the family’s money and property. She bought more land for their farm. This amount of control was rare for a woman at the time.
The couple had never been apart before and began writing letters to each other. John would ask Abigail for advice on his work in congress. Abigail would report back with news on the American Revolution and how the people of Boston were reacting to policies.
In 1776, Congress began debating the Declaration of Independence. This was an important decision if the colonies were to become a nation in their own right.
Abigail urged her husband to make sure that any new laws gave women equal rights to men. She famously told him to “Remember the ladies.”
John wasn’t persuaded, but her letters stand out today as some of the earliest known writings on women’s rights.
War and Peace
When the Revolutionary War began, Abigail wasn’t far from battle. Soldiers hid in her home and trained in her yard.
The war ended in 1783 after many battles, and America became a free nation. John was in Europe at the time working as a diplomat.
Abigail continued to keep him informed of news back home, before joining him in 1783. She explored France and even met the King of England.
They returned to America in 1788. John was elected Vice-President under George Washington.
Abigail served her duties as Second Lady, but worried about the farm back home. She was a strong woman, but didn’t enjoy being in the public eye.